Super Listeners

Teens are super listeners. Sometimes they may not hear what you say, but they do pick up on arrogance, fear, and anger. On the flip side, they pick up on caring and concern when you don’t say a word and let them speak. Ask them a judgment-free question and then show them you’re paying attention to their answer. Teens care what parents think of them, and they want your approval. Let them pick up on the fact that you believe they can solve their problems and make sound decisions. Teens keep talking when they don’t feel judged.


