Be an Idea Bouncer and Perspective Shifter

You’re listening to your teen tell you what’s wrong, and you immediately think of a great piece of advice that could solve their problem. Do you blurt it out? Of course not; not even if they’re saying something concerning. When you get the urge to interrupt, take a deep breath instead and convince yourself you can stay calm. Teens are more likely to take your insights to heart if you ask them if they want your insights. And that can only happen after they have their say. Remember, you’re an idea bouncer and perspective shifter, not a problem fixer.

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