Help Your Teen Gain Competence

“You can do it!” you promised your toddler when they tried to take their first steps. It’s time to shout it at your teen again as they approach a more grown-up set of developmental milestones during adolescence. That phrase is summed up with a single word: Competence. Teens earn it through experience, which means parents need to allow teens to trust their judgments, make responsible choices, and face difficult situations. Teens grow by mastering new skills. So get out of their way and trust that they can handle life—including figuring out what they don’t know yet.

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About Eden Pontz

Eden Pontz is Executive Producer and Director of Digital Content for CPTC. She oversees digital media content development and production for Parentandteen.com. She also writes, copyedits, and produces articles, podcasts, and videos for the site. Her pieces cover a range of topics including teen development, peer pressure, and mentoring. Eden brings years of experience as a former Executive Producer of Newsgathering at CNN, as well as a field producer, writer, and reporter for CNN and other news organizations.

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