Do Chores Teach Self-Control?

If you assign chores because you think it will teach teens self-control, think again. A 10-year study from the University of Houston didn’t find a relationship between chores and the development of self-control. Better ways for parents to encourage self-control include role modeling and praise when they show self-control. Meaning, if you avoid checking your phone during dinner, your teen will likely do the same. Notice them being responsible and thoughtful they’ll repeat those behaviors. Ask them to mow the lawn or wash dishes because everyone helps out. Help teens understand they’re valued and contributing members of the family.


