Learn the Equation for Setting Rules

The easiest way to remember the rules? Have fewer rules. When teens know their boundaries, they know everything inside those safety and morality limits is fair game. Plus, teens thrive when they’re not being controlled but instead experience rules and monitoring as an expression of your care for them. Here’s a simple equation for setting up boundaries—No “why” = No rule. If you can’t explain why you’re setting the boundary, don’t set it at all. You’ll be left with rules they remember and understand because they’re created out of your love and your commitment to their becoming their best selves.

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